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Betrayed husband Coaching

"My wife cheated on me. What do I do?"

It is absolutely astounding how little resources there are for betrayed husbands. If your wife has cheated on you or is a sex addict, you are not alone. You probably have a hundred questions swirling around in your head.

"Why did she cheat on me?"

"How do I move forward?"
"Is my wife a sex addict?"

"Can I ever trust her again?"
"How do I know it was just this 'one time?'" 

"Do I even want to trust her again?"
"Do we tell the kids?"
"What do I do?"


These are valid questions that you may be asking yourself - and it doesn't even cover the surface of the confusion, betrayal, and hurt that this infidelity has caused. Regardless of whether it was an emotional affair, pornography addiction, a physical affair, or cyber affair, you're in pain. You're hurting - and you don't know what to do or where to start healing. This is where coaching can help. 


You are not alone. You might not know where to start. But there is hope and healing in recovery. 
The Betrayed Husband program will help you with the following:

Implement effective tools and communication tactics regarding the betrayal - including the request of a factual disclosure from your wife

Learn how to set boundaries surrounding immature or inappropriate behavior

Join a brotherhood of other men who have been betrayed

Manage life transitions - Regardless of how you move forward, there is bound to be some life transition in some way.



Rediscover yourself and reignite your passions that may have been neglected over the course of your marriage

Rebuilding confidence and self-esteem in yourself, and establishing trust in your relationship. 


service formats

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one-on-one sessions

Coaching sessions can help you establish real goals, control and real, individualized progress


support groups

If you want to learn and grow, see how other men do it! My telephone working groups help men learn more about their relationships and themselves.

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telephone coaching

Receive confidential guidance via phone from the privacy of your home or office. Sessions will be 50 minutes long.  

How can
I help?

I am certified in every program offered through the American Association for Sexual Addiction Therapy (AASAT) which has in-depth training on sex addiction, infidelity, and betrayal trauma. While I am capable of working with you through your situation to develop effective strategies to communicate and set boundaries with your wife and move forward in healing if you so choose, I can also help you rediscover parts of yourself that you may have neglected throughout your marriage or life.


As a Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and Certified Professional Recovery Coach (CPRC) I can help you accomplish goals, build and strengthen personal relationships, rebuild confidence and self esteem, manage life transitions, reduce anxiety and self doubt, manage time effectively, and regain courage and take the lead! 

 My office is located at Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado; however, I offer telephone options for those out of the state and country. 



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